“A Letter to Nate”

by Bruce J. Johnson, pastor

 

June 25, 2006

 

Nathan Scott Cordner

317 Woodland Road

Coventry, Connecticut, 06238

 

 

Dear Nate:

 

Today is a special day in your life and I suspect that you may sense that. You are up early, got your breakfast, took your bath and out came this new outfit you probably had not seen until today. I doubt that your mom consulted you on its selection. Let me assure you that it is cool. I know that we are calling you Nate but your actual name is Nathan, which is a form of Nathaniel. What a great name and in the language of its origin, Hebrew, it means “Gift of the Lord.” Indeed, you are! (By the way, your dad’s name is Matthew and in the language of its origin, Hebrew, it means “Gift of God.”) That’s something else you have in common, although most of us believe that, generally, no matter what a person’s name might be and mean, all are gifts from God, children of God, and I hope that you come to learn and believe that very soon, if you don’t already know it! Kids know more than we think they know!

 

You are such a source of great pride and joy to both your father and mother. They have brought you to the sanctuary of the First Congregational Church in historic Coventry for your Christian baptism. You are accompanied by many, but not all, of your extended family. I see grandparents, aunts and uncles, in-laws and outlaws, cousins and family friends. Nate, you also have great grandparent here—four generations! After the service everyone is heading to the lake for a party at your lakefront home. What a weekend you have had. Fireworks last night and baptism today. I know that you already love to splash those feet in the water down at the beach. Have a good time.

 

As a pastor, I love being a part of people’s lives and knowing so much about them, especially on joyous occasions such as this one.

 

Nate, I have been a part of your family’s life for some time now. Would you believe me if I told you that way back on February 15, 1976, I baptized your mother here in this sanctuary. She was only 8 months old. You are 7. When you were born, you were 8 pounds, 15 ounces. You were 22 ½ inches long. You have probably seen all the pictures. As I recall, she was much smaller, just as handsome though but in a girly way.

 

Your dad is also from town, Andover but he graduated from Coventry High School in 1991. My wife, Lois, had him in a math class or two and actually served as his class advisor. I like looking at those old high school yearbooks. Your dad’s hair was quite red; his face quite boyish and he hasn’t changed much, except for the beard.  Many called him ‘Cords’ back then. You might want to throw that at him sometime. Back then we had concerns about what he would make of himself. His quote from the yearbook is as follows:

 

            “Put off for tomorrow what you don’t want to do today.”

 

He has, however, turned out just great, no need to worry. He’s a good guy, a great husband and as you know, a wonderful dad.

 

I had the privilege of presiding at their wedding, again here in this sanctuary on September 6, 2003.  Your dad is a landscaper and your mom is a physical therapist. This means that he has all kinds of wonderfully big toys like dump trucks and back hoes, tractors and bull-dozers, lawn mowers and leaf blowers. When he works too hard, your mom keeps him going with that physical therapy stuff. But all those toys await you!

 

Both your mom and dad have a wonderful reverence for nature’s beauty and what our creative genius can do with land, shrubs and  flowers. Your home on Woodland Road came right out this appreciation and is unique and comfortable and oh so welcoming. Home is always where the heart is and your heart is among a host of people who love you very much. Not to mention, the three cats, Jenny, Forest and Little Man and the black Lab, Sambuca. Your parents have wrapped the stone fireplace with cushions from the patio furniture because you seem to be quite active. You have a belly laugh and you move your feet fast and sometimes without benefit of music even. Your parents have come to call it your “River Dance” routine. And by the way, as soon as you are able, be sure to ask your parents about all those pictures in the upstairs hallway. Because it is a loft, I was able to see them. They are pictures of your parents, which were taken on each of their vacation, —BN. That’s ‘Before Nate.’ I would suggest that you sometime make a claim for equal vacation time with them!

 

So, Nate, as you can see, we know a lot about you and your family, and baptism is one of those wonderful times when we get a chance to revel in all that is right and good about life and love, faith, family and friendship.

 

I have visited with you and your parents in preparation for this service and sacrament, and your parents have simply glowed with pride and joy.  That’s no surprise. I remember a terrific quote by a man named David Wilkerson. He once said:

            “Love is not only something you feel. Its something you do.”

 

I like to say, “Love is as love does.”

Today, the day of you baptism, we rejoice in all that loves does.

 

A few moments ago, you were baptized.  We did this baptism after your parents acknowledged their belief in God and their faith in Jesus Christ and after they promised to raise you in a Christian home. All these are essential aspects of family life around your house.

 

In addition, along with promises made by your parents, there are those made by the community, now your family of faith. We stood and promised to help them raise you through our prayers and support, through worship and Christian education. You can’t image how we all feel, given this sense of belonging and shared commitment to each other. Perhaps someday when you participate, as we do today, you will know that same glorious feeling.

 

What makes baptism so glorious are the truths it affirms. The central truth is that you are in fact what your name means, a gift from the Lord, created out of love and for love. This means that although you have been entrusted to us, you do not really belong to us alone--YOU BELONG TO GOD.  The essential relationship in your life must be your relationship with God and our responsibility is to help you discover, understand and deepen it so that it enlivens and enriches all other relationships. We will attempt this as members of your family; some bonded by blood, all by faith. The central theme of family life is love and the source of that love is God and the best expression of it is to be found in the person and life of Jesus of Nazareth, the risen Christ, to whom you are uniquely connected. As you grow up in the church, you will hear the words ‘Good News.’ When you hear them, they will always be referring to the ‘good news about God’s love in Jesus Christ.’ What is both good and news worthy about God’s love is that when you know it, feel it, trust in it, you get to feel whole, healthy, hopeful and very happy. You get to feel forgiven and safe, secure, free and filled with peace. Faith brings with it a joy beyond description. Without it, things can be pretty tough. Our prayer for you is that you will come to experience and rejoice in this love and believe me, for a lifetime, God’s grace will always be sufficient for you.

 

It almost seemed too good to be true that the lesson appointed for today involved Jesus and his disciples being caught off guard by a terrible storm while crossing their own lake—the Sea of Galilee--- at night. We had a terrible storm on Friday and you probably watched the wind and the rain over the lake from the safety of your house. It was pretty wild, wasn’t it, equal to what was being described in the Gospel according to Mark.

 

We often refer to the life of faith as a journey, not always done during the light of day but sometimes during the night. Sometimes we are not even sure why we take certain trips or where we are going or what to expect when we get there. Indeed, no matter which Gospel we choose, it is always about Jesus choosing ordinary people to come follow him. No one actually knows where they are going. There are no maps. There is no itinerary, but they do know with whom. That seems to be all that matters. To be a disciple is to be on a journey with Jesus as your companion.

 

Sometimes it required crossing the lake, which is what they were trying to do, just trying to cross the lake with this carpenter friend of theirs, something, as fishermen, they must have done a thousand times before. On this trip, however, the journey becomes perilous, as so many do. Because of the strength of the wind and the size of the waves, they are scared to death.

 

Indeed, when the waves beat against the boat in the storm, Jesus is asleep--- on a cushion (another interesting detail!) But they’re scared to death. They woke him up, asking two very important questions; questions that just about everyone might ask at some point their lives.

 

The first is

            “Teacher, do you not care if we perish?”

 

What a question to ask of the man from Galilee, and yet in the midst of the storms of life, when we seem so buffeted by the winds and threatened by the waves, I guess that it is our first inclination. We let fears have their way in our lives and wonder out loud whether God really cares.

 

Nate, the real challenge in all our lives is what we do when the storms rage and we are afraid. Today on the occasion of your baptism we are affirming this simple but profound truth. God does care and in Jesus Christ bring the power of love to still the storm and bring us safely to shore. The story of our faith is that God does care and Jesus has shown us that God does act. Love is as love does, sometimes in dramatic fashion and other times in quiet but no less significant ways--- bringing peace and new possibilities.

 

 

Finally, at the end of today’s story, after the wind went silent and the sea smooth, the disciples were simply amazed, so amazed that they asked yet another question:

 

“Who then is this, that even the wind and the sea obey Him?”

 

If you ever find yourself in that place, wondering who He is and amazed over what He has done and maybe if why, pull out this letter, remember your baptism and be reminded of these simple truths:

 

·         JESUS IS LORD.

·          AND HE LOVES YOU TO A MEASURE BEYOND ANYTHING THAT YOU COULD EVEN IMAGINE

·         YOU, NATHAN SCOTT CORDNER, ARE HIS BELOVED GIFT TO US.

 

 

Your friend in Christ,

 

 

 

Bruce J. Johnson, Pastor